Writer's Block: Secret song

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What's the most embarrassing CD or track in your music library? How often do you listen to it? Do you share it with your friends or keep it to yourself?

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Let's see. I have several songs on my iPod that would make a number of people cringe. One of my favorite albums is the Alan Parsons Project Definitive Collection which I play over and over again. (You know it is bad when one of your father's favorites becomes your own, especially after he has already 'moved on' from it. sheesh.) Then we could just take the first song listed alphabetically: 'Abracadabra' by the Steve Miller Band. (ouch)

But really, the worst song in my iTunes library is... (drum roll)... 'My Eyes Adored You' by Frankie Valli. I even cringe to think about it. In fact I don't even listen to it, but I have to keep it. You see, it was the first record I ever bought in my entire life. I was seven years old and addicted to the radio. I loved ALL the sappy songs: 'Seasons In the Sun', 'Billy, Don't Be A Hero', and Neil Sedaka's 'Laughter In the Rain'. Scary, no? But it's true, and when my mom took me to the store and said, "Okay, you can have one record. (45rpm)" I chose Frankie Valli.

I could picture the song in my head and thought for sure that was how my life would be. I would meet some cute girly bookworm, we would be friends, she would pretty much ignore the fact that I was in love with her, and then - years later - we would look back and share some fond memory of days gone by. And, um, that's pretty much how it went... with EVERY girl I met in high school. Damn. Stupid song.

Things That Blow My Mind or, Today's Photo

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SNOW on the beach by Parisa.







Coney Island - Dec. 24, 2009 - 5am.

I always feel like somebody's watching me.

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I found another wonderful tidbit while at work the other day. This time it is an ad:





Here is the small text:
     What you see is a microphone transmitter; a tiny radio station that can go anywhere you go and broadcast anything you say to someone who is tuned in a quarter of a mile away.
     The implications are frightening; the consequences are expensive; but, you can do something about it with our help.
     We make a device that detects the device. It's a sensitive, sophisticated piece of electronic genius that informs you of the presence of a surveillance transmitter anywhere it might be placed.
     It's expensive, around $400; but, it could save you a lot. Up to now equipment like this has only been available to them. Now it's available to you.
     For complete information about this and other counter-surveillance equipment, write or phone: ...

This was run in a special supplement of the Detroit Sun focusing on the SLA (which was why I was making copies of it.) It is dated January 22, 1976.

This sort of blew my mind for a couple of reasons. First of all, were people really that paranoid about being bugged? Did it have something to do with Watergate? That was four years earlier. The excellent film The Conversation came out in 1974, maybe that had something to do with it. Secondly, who is the "them" in "equipment like this has only been available to them?" Spooky!

I guess the point I'm trying to make is how we sort of take it for granted that people are watching and listening to us at all time. The internet is probably the most to blame. People "Google" each other, troll Facebook to see what they are doing, feeling, and who they're talking to. (Not to mention Twitter, and all the new apps that tag where you are geographically when you post or "check in".) In fact, we have become hyper-aware that people are watching us and we have started, not only to take it for granted, but to play up to it as well. We create our own 'reality tv' every time we post a 'shout out' or blog about our lives.

I wonder what the average American from 1976 would think about the incessant sharing of personal information that we are so fond of today?

Long time no see

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Yeah. I don't know what it is with the internets, but once you start... you can't stop - right? I now have so many blogs/twitters/facebooks that I can barely keep them all straight.  But then I figure, this was my first... I should keep it going... at least for a little while more.

You never forget your first love, or at least that's what they tell me.


[Characters in Girls High School show "The Love Pirate of Hawaii"] 1927 Jan. 5
Photo courtesy of the
San Francisco Historical Photograph Collection, San Francisco Public Library.
 

Tidbits ~ The Wild Women post

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Dangerous! - Don't Mess with the (Women of the) U.S.!
Caption:
FOR THE NATIONAL DEFENSE -- WOMEN SHOOT
New York, August 28, 1941 ......... Feminine residents of New York learn how to handle firearms - for the national defense - under sponsorship of the Phoebe Apperson Hearst Memorial Post of the American Legion. At tonight's lesson at the 77th Division headquarters, Regina Tunney (left), and Florence Grab, riddle that ol' bull's eye as teacher, John Sugrue, of the Post's rifle team, looks on.

P, I think you should start this up in New York again and become a defender of the free world!


Fearless! - First Female Aviatrix and her Fabulous Flying Machine!

Caption:
March 3, 1934 ......... As if flying wasn't hazardous enough in the old front seat pusher planes, Ruth Law used to make it even more dangerous, just for fun. Here she is racing Gaston Chevrolet around a Montreal race track, the wheels just over Chevrolet's head.

Okay, to be fair, I only found out about Ruth Law because someone was researching her. But what a story! She first started flying in the early 1910s and had her own flying circus where she would do everything from loop-de-loops to getting out of the "cockpit" and walking on the wings. Later in her life she lived in San Francisco where she gave an interview reflecting on how it all started. Apparently a male friend of hers had convinced her to take a ride in a plane and once they were up in the air, he offered her the controls. At first she said no, but changed her mind, telling the interviewer, "I didn't want him to think I was afraid!" Apparently it wasn't scary at all because she just kept doing it. She bought her first plane from the one and only Orville Wright.

 
Gruesome! - Like Greek Mythology!

KILLS HUSBAND WITH HOT LARD AND AX
Los Angeles, September 11, 1933 ......... "Well, I'm glad I won't have to worry about him any more." This was the statement of Mrs. Rosa Ciani, charged by police with having poured gallons of boiling lard over her husband's face and then hacked him to death with an ax, while he lay asleep in bed. In another room of the house, Mrs. Ciani's four children were asleep when tragedy struck their home.

Right out of the House of Atreus if you ask me. And, you know, if she's got that much boiling lard lying around, well, it's probably not for making doughnuts.

Don't forget folks, you too can find these lovely tidbits! Just come on up to the Sixth Floor of the Main San Francisco Public Library or go on down to your local city's archives, they'll be happy to see you!

Happy (?) Valentine's Day!

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As promised to my most faithful reader, Parisa, I have a very special Valentine's Day tidbit for you. Culled from the History Center's collection of old San Francisco newsclippings comes this story of true love (or unhealthy obsession?):
Here is the text of the article:
(L.A. Examiner - April 2, 1912)

WIDOW JOINS DEAD SPOUSE - ENDS LIFE BESIDE HIS COFFIN
Mrs. Anna May Marsten Kills Herself With Gas In Room Where Husband Expired

Inconsolable in her grief, Mrs. Anna May Marsten ended her life yesterday beside the bier of her husband, Dr. Luther M. Marsten, who died suddenly Friday. A double funeral will be held from the home, 2319 Raymond avenue, which had been called the "love nest" by friends who often declared that Dr. Marsten and his wife "were the happiest sweethearts in Los Angeles."

Preferring to join her husband in death rather than face the world alone, Mrs. Marsten carefully stopped up the cracks of the doors with towels, turned on the gas and then pushed the leather couch on which her husband died to near where the coffin rested. On this couch she was found dead.

Five years ago Dr. Luther married Anna May Holly. He was 59 years old and she was nine years younger.

"Love knows no age, " Dr. Luther told a friend on the wedding day. "We are as happy and as deeply in love a any young couple. Our honey moon will not end until death."

That prophecy was right. They continued the most devoted of sweethearts. Their friends say that not one cross word ever passed between them.

Couple Always Contented
"They had a simple recipe for their happiness," was the statement yesterday of Miss Carrie Holly, a sister of Mrs. Marsten. "They never found fault and each studied how to make the other happy."

Dr. Marsten was unusually active for one of his age. He was stricken with apoplexy Friday and passed away several hours later.

Mrs. Marsten was prostrated by her husband's death. Then she rallied and called her sister to her.

""Luther wants me. I must go to him. I cannot endure life without him," she said with a calmess that alarmed her sister.

Despondency Not Overcome
Miss Holly called the pastor of Mrs. Marsten's church and he tried to console her. But the efforts failed.

Mrs. Marsten said she would try to get some sleep in one of the bedrooms on the first floor and wished to be alone.

The sister later went to the bedroom and found it empty. Then she hurried to the room in which the doctor had died. The doors were closed. A rush of gas staggered Miss Holly. She called neighbors and the body of Mrs. Marsten was found.

The double funeral will be held today and burial will be in one grave at Rosedale cemetery. Service will be at the Universalist Church conducted by the Rev. C.E. Nash. The rites at the cemetery will be private.

(Apparently we must have inherited a bunch of clippings from William Randolph Hearst's L.A. Examiner when we acquired the clippings for the San Francisco Examiner.)

A few amusing tid-bits.

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Although the majority of my day at the SF History center is spent in the staff elevator (either going down to get things out of storage or bringing said stuff back to the sixth floor) there is a very enjoyable part of my day during which I can peruse random books, files, and photographs while getting the patrons' research ready for them. It's during this time where I find all sorts of amusing tid-bits, which I thought I'd share with you here.

This comes from the Sunday, September 10, 1950 SF Chronicle:
I keep wondering just how many people were walking around San Francisco with missing eyeballs! Granted, this is post-WWII so perhaps some had lost eyes in the war and then, what, wanted an upgrade? And how uncomfortable would it be to wear a "stock eye".

Here are a couple of 'what exactly is going on here?' photos I found:
The caption reads: New York, Nov. 21 (1953) - A MOTHER IS MISSING - Michael Evangelista, 34, a restaurant cook whose wife, Mary, has been missing since Sunday night, is surrounded by his seven children. Evangelista said his wife left home Sunday night and failed to return.

Uh, yeah, seven children? I don't think she's coming back, buddy.
The caption reads: Memphis, Feb. 27 (1950s?) - BOY OR GIRL? - Despite all the platinum hair, etc., the one in middle is a boy. Police arrested trio as they hitchhiked through town enroute to New Orleans.

I love the pose!

In the post today...

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Look what just arrived via First Class Mail for me! My dearest friend Parisa (of PftP fame) sent this to me along with a note: It suddenly struck me that you should haave this instead of me - being the true SF Historian in our family!


Wow! Now you KNOW I'm going to have to step up and do a little more research on this amazing and historic theatre! And just so you don't think that I'm shirking my homework to do these posts... I've already found a neat little tie-in to the Classics! Upon the opening of this movie palace, one enthusiastic newspaper columnist declared: "Neither King, Nor Emperor, Nor Croessus could command more!"

Now, many of you who live (or have lived) in San Francisco know that this amazing theatre no longer exists. In fact, the huge apartment complex that stands there now is rumored to be haunted! (Ask any projectionist and they will tell you! Or wait for a little while and I will post more about this later - you do know that I once trained to become an apprentice in the Projectionist's Union, no?)

To keep the theme going (and I love a theme) - I ALSO just received a set of these wonderful Edgar Allan Poe stamps! Parisa, you'll be seeing these soon on something in your P.O. Box!

I saw a great film today...

Movies!

Skip the self-help books, skip therapy - watch this movie... it'll improve your life!

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Let us die young or let us live forever.

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I've recently finished watching the first season of True Blood and I must say... it's a rollicking good bloodsucking time. It's not ALL sex, drugs, and biting... though, it might not to everyone's taste. But, as vampire aficionado (and lovely pillow maker) PftP states: "It's super racy and it has tons of good vampire (sociopath) psychology. Plus it smartly explores the way the vampires and humans envy, desire, fear, enjoy, and despise each other in the context of a shared coexistence in Louisiana."

The South and vampires go very well together. Well, I suppose Vampires can make the most of any place really. How 'bout right here in San Francisco? Sure. Just on a whim I checked the vertical files in the History Center for anything on vampires and found one article: Vampire Scholar Found One Here. No source, no date. But after a bit of checking, I figured out that it was from the SF Chronicle sometime in 1972. (Naturally... mid-drug, etc. experimentation/pre-AIDS days.)

The scholar is SF State Professor Leonard Wolf (father of third-wave feminist, Naomi Wolf) who just happened to have a new book out at the time called A Dream of Dracula. The vampire is 22-year old 'Alex' who Wolf found through a mutual friend after several fruitless ads placed in the SF Chron. Wolf told the reporter that Alex had been turned on to blood drinking by acquaintances on a drug trip. Shortly afterward, Alex got married and, during his honeymoon, the blood drinking began in earnest. His bride left him for good the very next day. No worries though, as Wolf explained to the reporter, "San Francisco seems to be on a bood trip." Apparently masochists around The City were lining up to be bit. Good times.

My question is: Why would you go through all the trouble of drinking blood if you're not going to live forever because of it? I mean, really, isn't that the whole point?

Folks, it's a dirty world out there... keep your fangs to yourself and your id in check. If you want vampires, check out True Blood. If you haven't watched it already, you should... it's just that (unless you're clever like me) you'll have to wait for the DVD to be released on May 12th.

Oh, and you could always check out Leonard Wolf's extensive work on vampires and such, including A Dream of Dracula.